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Things women
wish you knew
Here’s
something to
send an untimely
chill down your
spine - your
partner is
hoping you’ll
read this
article.
Face it,
women are
different to men
– you may
already have
noticed. So it’s
predictable that
some of the
things blokes do
in bed will
drive women
wild, while
others might
just irk them a
bit. Here are a
few, and what
you can do about
them.
Hygiene
Even if you
believe your
trouser
furniture is
clean, a shower
before bed never
hurt anyone. She
might even get
into hot water
with you. Being
clean is a basic
courtesy,
whether you’ve
spent the day by
the pool or
mopping out the
lion’s cage.
Don’t make a big
ceremony of it.
Just say, “I’m
going to have a
shower before
bed,” or ad lib
it. The same
goes for your
hands and any
other part of
you that you
plan to put
inside her.
Clean hands and
immaculately
trimmed and
scrubbed nails
are mandatory.
Trying to
be a stud
Women can be
very sensitive
about this: Mr
Lover Man goes
through his
whole seduction
routine,
stimulating her
squishy bits and
coaxing her
toward an
almighty orgasm.
Yet she gets the
feeling he’s
making love to A
Woman, rather
than to her. Try
focusing on her.
Calling her by
her name is
good, especially
if you pronounce
it correctly.
Foreplay
starts with the
clothes on
Warming up to a
sweaty, naked
encounter can
start hours,
even days
beforehand and
actually being
considerate and
nice can pay
dividends. Some
blokes can pull
off the whole
smouldering,
bad-guy image,
but a lot of the
time they end up
glowering,
Healthcliffe-like,
at themselves in
the mirror of
some bar. The
bottom line:
don’t stand her
up for lunch and
then expect to
arrive at her
place and be
greeted by a
seductress in
something lacy.
Hitting
the same bases
Beware of
slipping into a
schedule: kiss,
breasts, kiss
some more,
penetration.
Once a women
feels you’ve
fallen into a
habit, the
thermostat goes
off. Remind
yourself of all
the other nerve
endings in
splendid array
around her body.
Even slender
girls have
plenty of skin
and all of it
has really
useful nerve
endings.
Keeping
quiet
Even if you’re
not the most
articulate of
men when you’re
in the sack, try
to at least emit
the occasional
appreciative
sound. And if
she urges you to
talk to her
during those
intimate
moments, you’d
better learn to.
Being too
rough
We’ll put it
down to
enthusiasm, but
no woman likes
to have her
breasts twisted
off or her
vagina prodded
with claw-like
fingers. You’re
dealing with
soft, pliable
tissue here. Go
softly. If
you’re doing it
correctly,
you’ll know, and
if she wants
more pressure or
roughness she’ll
probably tell
you.
Finishing
too soon
For some men
this becomes a
dreaded habit
that warrants
therapy. For
most, it can be
fixed with a
little
self-help.
Masturbate until
you’re about to
have an orgasm,
then stop.
Repeat this
several times
before finishing
off. Regularly
working at this
will help to
delay your
reaction and you
ought to be able
to control it
better. Until
you get that
right you can
rely on the rest
of your
formidable
arsenal of
stimulation to
provide your
partner with all
sorts of
pleasure. You
can give her an
orgasm with
cunnilingus or
your fingers, or
take her up to
the very brink
before
introducing your
penis.
Lasting
too long
Some men would
give a kidney to
have this
problem, but it
can be very
little fun for
women who just
wish the guy
would finish up.
For some men,
this is a result
of plenty of
frenzied,
hurried
masturbation,
which has left
the penis
desensitised. It
can be cured by
leaving the
member alone for
a few weeks.
With no
masturbation,
there’ll be some
return of
sensitivity.
After that you
should
masturbate
gently, or by
using only your
fingertips, not
squeezing like
you’re trying to
throttle a
python.
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